Where we are at this moment

Is exactly where you are supposed to be.

There are no what if’s, what could have beens, or what should have beens because you would not be who you are at this very exact moment if things happened any differently. You would not have certain life epiphanies you’ve had, certain friendships made, and certain relationships (friend or romantic) happen if things had went differently. And though there can be lingering thoughts about what if or what could, we are in this present moment with certain realizations and epiphanies guiding us to where we SHOULD be in the long run. And my realization this weekend is that you must always have faith and hope that where you will end up is where you’re supposed to be. There is no point referring to past relationships or events that have caused us distress because ultimately the hard learned life lesson came later on. What happened probably hurt and some days you may question yourself, but you were not meant to linger there because look where you are now… Moving forward and that is amazing. This is a reminder to myself, that I did what I could and things happened for a reason. I am where I’m supposed to be, surrounded by the people I am supposed to be around and ultimately I am so much happier.